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Have you watched "Battleship"? There is meaning is conveyed not give up. Look at Liutenant Alex Hooper when he was desperate, all the crew continued to encourage him. Then Hooper almost gave up, he rise up and don't give up to fight his enemies and opponents.

At some point in the various journeys we embark on in our lives, we get to a part where we feel like giving up. Sometimes we give up before we even start and other times we give up just before we are about to make that huge break-through that we have been putting so much effort in to achieve.

Reasons why you should never give up and I hope that you will find it before you give up, so that I can inspire you to keep going!

1. As Long As You Are Alive Anything Is Possible
The only valid excuse you have to give up is if you are dead. As long as you are alive (and healthy and free) you have the choice to keep trying until you finally succeed.

2. Be Realistic
The chance of mastering something the first time you do it is almost non-existent. Everything takes time to learn and you will make mistakes. Learn from them.

3. You Are Strong
You are stronger than you think. One little setback is not enough to stop you from achieving your goals. Neither are 10 or 100 or 1000 setbacks.

4. Prove Yourself
You don’t want to be known as someone that is weak and gives up. Go out there and prove yourself to the world and to yourself. You CAN and WILL achieve what you set out to do. The only time you fail is when you give up.

5. Has It Been Done Before?
If someone else can do it then so can you. Even if it is only one other person in the world that has achieved what you have set out to achieve, that should be reason enough for you to never give up.

6. Believe In Your Dreams
Don’t sell yourself short. In life there are going to be many people who will try to bring you down and tell you what you want to achieve is not possible. Don’t let anyone destroy your dreams.

7. Your Family and Friends.
Let the people you love and who mean the world to you be your inspiration to persist and persevere. Maybe you need to try a different angle, study more or practice more but don’t give up!

8. Because I Tell You To.
Not that I am any sort of guru or Godly figure, but if you want to give up then don’t. Just because I’m telling you not to.

9. There Are People Worse-Off
Right now there are many people who are in a worse situation and environment than you are right now. Are you thinking about giving up running 5 miles a week? Think about the people who are unable to even walk and how much they would give to be able to run 5 miles every day.

10. Improve Our World
When you achieve whatever you set out to achieve you can use your success to make a difference to the world or other peoples lives.

11. Let The Haters Hate
There will always be haters. There will always be plenty of naysayers and people who try to tear you down. Don’t pay attention to them and don’t take what they say to heart. Let the haters hate and you keep believing in yourself.

12. You Deserve To Be Happy
Don’t ever let anybody tell you otherwise. You deserve to be happy and you deserve to have success. Keep that mindset and never give up until you reach your destination!

13. Inspire Others
Be an inspiration to others by refusing to give up. Who knows what someone else can achieve because you never gave up and in turn inspired them not to give up.

14. You Are So Close
Often when you feel like you want to give up and you are about to give up you are so close to making a huge break-through.

PS NEVER GIVE UP

A review from "the leader who had no title - Robin Sharma"

“We all need to lead where we are planted and shine where we now find ourselves.” According to Robin Sharma, the author of The Leader Who Had No Title: A Modern Fable on Real Success in Business and in Life, anyone can be a leader. Too many people go to work with the mindset that to be a leader they need to work their way up the company ladder, get the title or position they seek, and then they can be leaders. This is the wrong approach according to Sharma.

The story is good and somewhat engaging. The leadership principles that surface in the story make the book worth reading. The foundation principle is self-leadership. According to Sharma, “leaders are those individuals who do the things that failures aren’t willing to do–even though they might not like doing them either.” Too many people pay the sad costs of mediocrity and forego the spectacular rewards of being a leader.

In the story, the main character (Blake) has conversations with four unorthodox leaders. Each of these individuals works in a position that — based on conventional wisdom — would not be considered a leadership position. Each conversation brings out key principles that can help “ordinary” people become true leaders:

You need not title to be a leader: Success (business and personal) is something that’s consciously created. To lead without a title “you will have to be unrealistically persistent and wildly courageous.”
Turbulent times build great leaders: Challenging times in both business and life give us great opportunities to learn and transform ourselves. “Problems and difficult days are actually good for you.”
The deeper your relationships, the stronger your leadership: “Leave every single person who intersects your path better, happier, and more engaged than you found them.” Time spent forming deep relationships–in all aspects of life–will pay dividends down the road.
To be a great leader, first become a great person: Training and strengthening your inner leader will help you perform at extraordinary levels. The key is learning to lead yourself. In our world we define success by the things we have, not by the people we’ve become. The more self-awareness we develop the more likely we are to grow and help others.
If you are looking for practical ways to improve your leadership and your ability to make a difference where you’re at now, this book is a must-read. Though I’m not a veteran, I appreciate the thread of gratitude throughout the book for veterans who have served and for the freedoms espoused in America.

Yah belakangan di twitter saya buat hastag baru dengan hastag #romantikanorika.. Nah isi dari hastag itu adalah berupa kata cinta, galau, sedih, nyesek, dan lucu"an.. Didalam ada pengalaman pribadi, namun kebanyakan adalah fiksi sebagai lucu"an semata. Sampai ada teman saya yang menjuluki saya radityadika kedua. Pernah saya sampai dipromosiin temen saya, yah dampaknya ada follower yang memfollow saya puluhan orang. Kebanyakan me-RT hastag #romantikanorika yang galau. Memang hidup jangan keasikan galau, karna ga bagus. Semua orang pasti pernah galau, karna mungkin bimbang karna hal sahabat, asmara, maupun galau akan hal lain. Tapi akan lebih bagusnya kalau digunakan waktunya untuk hal yang lain daripada harus galau sih.. :)

Hidup ini ibarat sebuah roda sepeda, roda mobil, atau roda motor. Coba cek roda roda tersebut. Berputar kan? Nah hidup juga begitu. Berputar. Kadang di atas kadang di bawah. Kadang mengalami kesuksesan kadang harus menghadapi kegagalan. Itulah hidup. Hidup selalu bergelombang. Maka kita harus membuat sebuah kapal dalam diri kita agar tidak mudah goyah oleh hempasan gelombang sebesar apapun. Maka dari itu hidup perlu motivasi. Motivasi adalah dorongan semangat untuk tetap menjalankan hidup ini dengan aktif. Motivasi sangat diperlukan dalam keadaan bagaimanapun. Motivasi adalah bagian dari pada syarat hidup manusia yang akan menjalani hidup sehari hari. Tanpa motivasi maka apalah artinya hidup ini.

Banyak orang stress dalam hidup ini. Apalagi di zaman internet, zaman yang penuh persaingan ketat antar yang satu dengan yang lain, stress pasti akan selalu menghinggapi diri manusia. Malah karena stress tidak jarang membuat orang putus asa dan mengakhiri hidupnya di dunia. Bunuh diri ! Hidup sangat memerlukan motivasi. Gagal itu adalah bagian dari hidup. Jangan karena kegagalan satu, dua dan tiga kali, lantas membuat kita putus asa. Bahkan putus asa dalam agama adalah dosa. Hanya orang yang tidak beriman saja yang mudah putus asa. Seandainya Thomas Alfa Edison, si penemu lampu listrik, putus asa dalam menjalankan percobaannya, maka sampai saat ini kita tidak akan menikmati cahaya di malam hari. Bener tidak?

Motivasilah diri kita agar menjadi lebih baik